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 @9GT53BX  from Nevada  disagreed…1yr1Y

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Why should gay couples have any less rights to adoption than straight people? If a couple passes all background checks and meets all the requirements then they should be allowed to adopt a child, no matter the gender identity or sexual orientation of the couple.

 @9GYTKTS from Idaho  agreed…1yr1Y

I completely agree, gay couples are couples like any other and deserve the rights to adopt children.

  @Patriot-#1776Constitution from Washington  disagreed…1yr1Y

Because a father-mother family structure is better for the child, that's why

  @9CJ6CB6 from Virginia  commented…1yr1Y

The thought process is almost exactly the same for single parents, and yet they’re allowed to adopt.

  @Patriot-#1776Constitution from Washington  commented…1yr1Y

Single parents shouldn't be allowed to adopt either

  @9CJ6CB6 from Virginia  commented…1yr1Y

Well, at least that part is logically consistent, but the adopted child does get a say in the matter very often, and if the parent shows to be stable via the measures required to adopt, I don’t see the problem since so many orphans and kids wouldn’t be as likely to be adopted if single parents were out of the program.

 @9H2HR9L from Pennsylvania  disagreed…1yr1Y

ANYONE should be able to adopt a child if they are a good parent. People want to love someone else, that's great! But if they can't have a biological kid, and want one of their own, I think that is beautiful, because they know what love is.

 @9FSXPS8 from Nebraska  disagreed…2yrs2Y

LGBTQ parents are exactly the same as parents who are not apart of the LGBTQ community. As long as they treat the kid right and give it a good home that's all that matters.

 @9GXGW29 from Pennsylvania  disagreed…1yr1Y

Everyone is a person and deserves equal rights to persue happiness. LGBT are identities, not a crime.

 @9GWT8JP from New York  disagreed…1yr1Y

There is no evidence suggesting that having 2 same sex parents harms a child any more than 2 opposite sex parents. As long as they are subjected to the same background checks, mental health assessments etc. there should be no reason to discriminate them from adoption.

 @9FZ5WYS from Florida  disagreed…2yrs2Y

If they are financially stable and mentally prepared, there is no justified reason to not allow them to adopt children.

 @9FVTLDR from Indiana  disagreed…2yrs2Y

Same-sex partners can care for a child just as good as heterosexual partners, also there is an abundance of children in the foster system and adoption system that need to be adopted and given a good life, and same-sex partners fill the position very well by adding more people available to adopt children

 @9GT6KTB from North Carolina  disagreed…1yr1Y

Why does the gender of ones parents matter? If the people who want to adopt are proven to be efficient parents, then I don't see the problem.

 @9GSDMZL from Washington  disagreed…1yr1Y

Just because 2 men are kissing doesn't mean any kids they adopt are gonna suffer. Hell ive seen more healthy lgbtq families than straight families.

 @9GSXQYV from Idaho  disagreed…1yr1Y

That is just wrong. That is very discriminatory. Everyone should have the same adoption rights no matter what their sexuality is.

 @9GW2JYQ from Colorado  disagreed…1yr1Y

Yes, because everyone should have the same rights, they should have the same opportunities and just because they are the same-sex couple should not change anything.

 @9GP5CJM from Illinois  disagreed…2yrs2Y

If a gay couple has met all of the qualifications and requirements to become an adopted parent, they should be able to do so. The foster system has its flaws. Many kids slip through the cracks and are not given the lives they deserve. The people of America shouldn't risk the safety of its children with the flaws in the system just because they don't agree with two people that are married. If there is a chance the LGBT couple will love a child like he or she is their own, they should be able to adopt said child. Personal vendettas should not affect the life and safety of America's children.

 @9H53C8Z from Washington  disagreed…1yr1Y

Gay couples deserve to have children just as much as straight couples. There is no reason they should not be able to adopt and a child and raise it, they will love that child the exact same. Gay couples are unable to have biological children, this is one of their only options to have a child, same goes for straight couples who are unable to conceive, so why should they not be given equal rights?

 @9FJ9PZHPeace and Freedom from Alabama  disagreed…2yrs2Y

Benefits of LGBT Adoption
The truth is that children of LGBT couples are more accepting of same-sex and non-traditional families.

 @9H2NTNH from Michigan  disagreed…1yr1Y

LGBT are allowed a family just as much as straight couples, they aren't bothering you so why do you care so much?

 @9FZPLY8 from California  disagreed…2yrs2Y

I am personally part of the LGBTQ+ community and I am in a queer relationship. We are looking forward to adopting children because we aren't able to produce our own children without a sperm donor and neither of us is willing to carry a child for 9 months, potentially destroying our bodies. We are both actors and being pregnant could prevent jobs in the future. We still dream of being parents and we would be no worse parents than a straight couple would be. There is no reason why my ability to have and take care of children should be limited.

 @9FJ8PHH from California  agreed…2yrs2Y

When you were a kid you may have favored one adult. However, you still looked up to and respected both. Look back at what they did to help you become the person you are now.

  @Renaldo-MoonGreen  from Pennsylvania  disagreed…6mos6MO

Expert LGBT Adoption Rights

Not true. Never once looked up or gave a spit about either of my parents especially my father. The only way they shaped my personality is my showing me the way I did not want to be.

Also how is this anti gay adoption???

 @9G9TXDY from Tennessee  disagreed…2yrs2Y

LGBTQ parents are the same as normal parents, as long as the kid is happy and treated well that’s all that matters.

 @9G5873X from Idaho  disagreed…2yrs2Y

Anyone who passes a background check, mental health checks, or has enough money to have a child should be able to adopt.

 @9G62N5Mdisagreed…2yrs2Y

If they are financially stable and mentally prepared, there is no justified reason to not allow them to adopt children.

 @9LY6SDZ from West Virginia  disagreed…1yr1Y

Why? How is this even affecting you? Mind your business and let people be happy. Being gay isn’t contagious.

 @9FNYSZ6Republican from Illinois  agreed…2yrs2Y

Mothers nurture, protect, and care for the child. Fathers protect, provide, and lead the child. With out a father a child is more likely to end up in jail.

 @B3CQ49T from California  disagreed…2mos2MO

Everyone should be allowed the same rights. If a straight couple is allowed to adopt, then a gay couple should be allowed to as well.

 @B35RFWF from California  disagreed…3mos3MO

The sex of parents does not affect their ability to raise a child, anyone should be able to adopt a child as children need caring parents.

 @B2SW5RV from New York  disagreed…3mos3MO

I have pity for the people who use the bible as their moral compass. Your views are your views but they are most certainly not mine so refrain from saying a certain way of living is incorrect just because it does not mold to your standards.

 @B2RVBLCSocialistfrom Virgin Islands  disagreed…3mos3MO

by pure statistic children adopted by lgbtq+ parents are on average equal when compared with children from opposite-sex parents

 @B2KQ7KZ from Minnesota  disagreed…3mos3MO

The basis of our country and our constitution is that everyone should have the same rights. How is denying someone the right to adopt sticking to that belief?

 @cavnewmanDemocrat  from Kansas  disagreed…6mos6MO

Since the government has redefined marriage, they have redefined the family as well. Although I disagree with this definition, it has been set and so should be honored in our country.

 @9WRMTCPProgressive from Texas  disagreed…6mos6MO

Same sex couples are just as qualified and just as likely to be good parents as opposite sex couples

 @9KVB3MS from California  disagreed…1yr1Y

People shouldn't be discriminated against due to their sexual orientation, especially because it gives no indication of how a child will be raised.

 @9JS78CGIndependent from Pennsylvania  disagreed…1yr1Y

Because nobody has the right to adopt, our opposition to anti-gay adoption bills is not based on “gay rights” and we should not frame our arguments that way.

 @9JP9V2M from Maryland  disagreed…1yr1Y

Couples of the opposite sex are not all fit for the position to raise an adopted child or children relating to the LGBT community.

 @9JH9RC6from Maine  disagreed…1yr1Y

Even if you think a child should have a mother and a father, surely two fathers or two mothers is better than no parents whatsoever.

 @9JH3ZRQ from North Carolina  disagreed…1yr1Y

The adoption rights of gay couples should be allowed and permitted. Our society is moving forwards and does not have to stay the same through our society.

 @9MX3LPW from New Jersey  disagreed…12mos12MO

There is no conclusive evidence that LGBT parents are better/worse at raising a child than straight parents. For most LGBT families adoption is their only option to have children. There are an excess of children in the foster system and to limit who can parent them is entirely unfair to their wellbeing.

 @9M3HKXQSocialist from North Carolina  disagreed…1yr1Y

There has been no evidence that an LGBT couple would raise a child any different than a heterosexual couple. If they fit the same qualifications as a straight couple in order to adopt, there is no real logical reason as to why they should not have the privilege of adopting.

 @9LXSFT3 from Kansas  disagreed…1yr1Y

with roughly 113,000 children needing a home in the us alone, why restrict based on sexual orientation. If the home is a warm, safe, loving environment, there should be no issue.

 @9LS5Y7JProgressive from Texas  disagreed…1yr1Y

People should be allowed to adopt children because two men, two women, or whomever, can be just as good parents as any same-sex couple can, no matter what.

 @9LRTS4M from Louisiana  disagreed…1yr1Y

LGBTQ+ citizens deserve all the same rights as straight couples. As long as they offer a safe environment for the children, they should be allowed to adopt. Everyone is equal.

 @9L264NK from Illinois  disagreed…1yr1Y

Why should gay couples have any less rights to adoption than straight people? If a couple passes all background checks and meets all the requirements then they should be allowed to adopt a child, no matter the gender identity or sexual orientation of the couple.

 @9J2BHJ9 from Iowa  disagreed…1yr1Y

If straight couples are allowed to adopt, give me one good reason why a happy gay couple can't start their own family if they wish?

 @9HZPYTP from Virginia  disagreed…1yr1Y

Who tf are you to tell people they can't raise a child? I understand if you believe the parental figures should be a man and a woman, but unfortunately for you: that isn't required. Respect your fellow citizens.

 @9HPG9NY from Michigan  disagreed…1yr1Y

There is currently no reputable statistical measure that suggests LGBT or non-heterosexual adoptive parents are inferior to heterosexual parents (per 2004 American Psychological Association findings), and there are still plenty of children that would benefit from an adoptive home instead of foster systems or orphanages.

 @9HJZFZYIndependent from Texas  disagreed…1yr1Y

why not give them the same rights if they're just people like heteros. we all die none of this matters.

 @9LTV5SC from California  disagreed…1yr1Y

A person who is not married to another individual who wishes to be a single mother or father is legally allowed to adopt a child, but an individual who is LGBTQ is not?

 @9GSCB96 from Texas  disagreed…1yr1Y

People are people. There are a lot more cases of child abuse by parents in staright marriges, than in same sex marriges. This is a law based upon religion, and should not be continued.

 @9TBGMNC  from California  disagreed…2wks2W

#9 Informed LGBT Adoption Rights

All children deserve a safe, loving home. Simply being part of the LGBTQIA+ community does NOT exclude any person from being capable of providing that for a child.

 @B27L8L9  from Rhode Island  disagreed…4mos4MO

Any adult should be able to adopt a child so long as they pass certain background checks, such as no criminal risk or mental illness related issues. And no, being LGBTQ does not count as either of those things in and of itself.

 @9HZFV63Peace and Freedom from California  disagreed…1yr1Y

Who said families have to be perfect, no family is perfect, no mother and father are perfect, and if they were the same gender- even with that inperfection they would still have the love and support that any other family has.

 @9GRG6DX from Wisconsin  disagreed…1yr1Y

If they are financially stable and mentally prepared, there is no reason they couldn't adopt a child who needs a home. The only thing that matters is that the kid is happy.

 @9GSHYQK from Florida  disagreed…1yr1Y

What if a heterosexual couple who the man is a drug dealer or the woman is a prostitute and has no stable house while the gay couple has well-paying jobs and a stable house. You would give the child to the hetero couple than the gay couple?

 @9G8W2G8 from North Carolina  disagreed…2yrs2Y

What makes LGBT adoption of children different than straight adoption? If you believe that these people will indoctrinate children, then remember that straight couples can and do the same all the time.

 @9GVLFZK from California  disagreed…1yr1Y

i believe that everybody should have similar rights and one shouldn't be treated differently because of the certain gender they like.

 @9FJ92SJ from Alabama  disagreed…2yrs2Y

The entire point behind adoption is for people who can't normally have children, to have children. So gay peop

 @9H4Z6VH from New York  disagreed…1yr1Y

What’s wrong with letting kids being adopted into loving homes when a LGBT couple adopts them. There’s no proof that states that children raised by same sex parents fare worse than their peers who were raised by opposite sex parents.

 @9H3R4HD from Pennsylvania  disagreed…1yr1Y

LGBT should allow to adopt because they are humans too, theres no real reason to deny them of adoption unless they have done terrible things of course.

 @9H3LNWY from Ohio  disagreed…1yr1Y

EVeryone even LGBTQ+ people should be able to adopt because the more families that you support the more you have to support you.

 @9GW694T from Pennsylvania  disagreed…1yr1Y

if they want to be a parent, they would be better parents than a lot of straight couples that have a child

 @9GT9CTG from New York  disagreed…1yr1Y

as someone who has spent time in the foster care system the person who adopts you should have a connection with you regardless of sexuality

 @9FTF2B4 from North Carolina  disagreed…2yrs2Y

Adoption Agencies actually ask LGBTQ+ couples if they'll take in kids that haven't been adopted by anyone else, because they are more likely to say yes. So, if LGBTQ+ couples are no longer able to adopt, then there will actually be less children put into safe homes from orphanages .

 @9G9HKM3 from Florida  disagreed…2yrs2Y

They're people too. Just because they sexually orient themselves differently does not make them much more different to any of us. It also does not make them any less capable of having a loving family.

 @9G2CLYWGreendisagreed…2yrs2Y

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